Recently, I was working with a group of people who felt other people needed to work on their self-esteem to improve relationships.
This was a form of the victim or blame game played by many people in our society today. The facts are – You are Responsible for Your Self-Esteem. If you take care of yourself, then you could favorably influence others around you too.
Great Relationships are Built upon Great Self-Esteem.
It is easy to fall into the blame games of life, stating others need to clean up their acts or improve their self-esteem or attitude and THEN everyone’s life will be better.
As the old Tuna commercial stated – “Sorry Charlie.”
In an ideal world everyone would take care of there own personal development and life would improve dramatically.
The learning point is to take responsibility for developing your own self-esteem. Then you can influence others by making the right choices in life.
There is one exception to my point here. If you are a parent, then it is your responsibility to provide a family environment which develops the self-esteem of your children. When they get the parental support early in life, they have a better opportunity to grow into high self-esteem adults.
Take a moment out of your busy life to reflect upon what you are doing to develop your own self-esteem. How much do you “like yourself?” as Brian Tracy tells us in the Phoenix Seminar. Remember what he tells us…
“You can only like people to the degree you like yourself.”
Enjoy your life. Review your Phoenix Seminar CD’s at least once a year to bring these Universal Laws of Success and Achievement to a top of mind level.
If you do not have the CD’s, check out our store and order a set for yourself. If you have never experienced the Phoenix Seminar and it’s life improving lessons – then contact us about attending one of our “open enrollment” sessions in Memphis, Tennessee.
